Saying those two words, "I do" have never been more life-changing, destiny-altering. As you look into the eyes of your partner-for-life, I'm telling you the last thing you want to think about is your hair.
But saying "yes to the tress" is not as easy as you'd first think it would be.
Here's some of the advice I have for future brides on things I thought went well and some things I wish I would have done.
Written by @fauxringlets
Wrong.
My dentist didn’t notice. My hygienist didn’t notice.
When I went back, six months later for my next appointment, nobody noticed. Instead, my hygienist complimented my highlights.
Even if I have no reason to believe they know I’m wearing a wig, I still worry when someone compliments my hair, always wondering: can they tell?
Not this time.
In fact, I was so nervous, sitting there in the dentist’s chair, that I was very aware of where my hygienist and dentist were looking. They were looking at my teeth, not my hair.
It was such a relief, because I was struck by a moment of certainty that she had no idea I was wearing a wig.
This, I thought, was surely the ultimate test. I’m rarely that physically close to someone who doesn’t already know I’m wearing a wig. I could hardly believe it would be possible to have someone that close to my face without noticing my hairline.
It is entirely possible to be that close to someone, and to go to the dentist, without anyone noticing you are wearing alternative hair. Remember that most people don’t scrutinize the hairlines of everyone around them!
Another important reminder:
Your dentist only sees you every couple of months. Don’t worry if they will think your hair has changed drastically since you’ve last seen them. They will not assume your hair has changed overnight.
Remember they see all their patients infrequently! They’re likely used to people’s hair changing between appointments.
If you’re going to spend your entire appointment filled with anxiety about whether or not they can tell you’re wearing hair, and telling them will make you feel better, then tell them. With that said, I’m telling you: you don’t have to.
Chances are, they won’t notice, because, quite frankly, they’re not paying any attention to your hairline. They’re focused on your teeth!
My first time at the dentist with a wig on, I worried about more than whether my wig would be noticed. I was also very nervous that wearing a wig would interfere with my dental x-rays.
It didn’t.
Dental x-rays are focused around your jaw, so parts of a wig like the clips or the metal in the eartabs should not interfere with the imaging.
I wore a wig with clips in it (the inside of the cap is pictured below), without any issues, so you should not have any problems if you are wearing a topper.
You should also keep in mind that you will be reclining in a chair. Make sure you’ll be able to do that comfortably in your wig or topper. This likely will not be a problem, but if you tend to worry like I do, I recommend putting on the wig or topper you intend to wear to your appointment and laying your head back at home to test how secure it is.
I experiment with everything from new wigs, to hairstyles, to activities. This helps me feel far more confident when I later wear my wig out of the house. Do whatever you need to feel as comfortable as you can!
Additionally, I haven’t had any issues with my wig falling in my face at the dentist, but if you’re worried about it, a low ponytail is a great option. It will keep your hair out of the way, stay secure, and won’t sit in an uncomfortable place on your head when you sit back in the dentist’s chair.
I’m a big believer that wearing hair shouldn’t prevent you from living your life to the fullest, and it certainly shouldn’t prevent you from looking after your health. I’ve had my fair share of anxiety about wearing wigs in new situations, so I hope my own time at the dentist can be reassuring to others.
For women with hair loss, diving in at the pool, beach, or lake can fill us with anxiety and questions. Most importantly: Should I swim with my wig on?
The short answer: YES! You can definitely rock your wigs and toppers in the water.
So, you’ve decided to pursue your first Wig or Hair Topper. Congratulations! This article gives advice on how to find the best wigs and hair toppers for women with hair thinning or women who just want a fabulous hair piece!
One of my earliest concerns when I began wearing hair was how I would manage to wear hair and be active. The idea of wearing a wig while working out was daunting. I didn’t want to have finally found a solution for my hair loss, only for that very solution to prevent me from living my life to the fullest.
Hi! My name is J., I live in France and I'm 37. I was diagnosed with androgenic alopecia about 6 months ago (but I've got thinning hair since at least 10 years) and here I am in the new world of toppers and wigs!
By doing some research on Instagram, I found your account, then your really helpful guide and ultimately the launching of your website (what a great idea!).
I also gathered some information on the internet but I've still got questions unanswered and I hope you can help me.
What are the real pros and cons of a silk top versus a lace top wig? Or even a full lace wig? Which one(s) do you prefer and why?
There may be slight differences in how each brand measures their wig and/or hair toppers, but here is the general way you can make sure you are getting the right fit.
What's the right answer?
Honestly (and this isn't a cop out answer), there isn't a "right" answer - many people can wear and look great in both!
In many instances, it comes down to personal preference and it may even be dependent on the occasion/weather as well!
Here are some top line differences between a wig and hair topper as well as factors to consider when choosing between the two types!
The short answer is no - you don't *need* to wear a wig cap.
However, if your wig isn't the perfect fit, or if it has any of these factors, you may consider wearing a wig cap and/or wig grip to make sure your unit stays in place.
Read more to find out!
